从前，有一个脾气很坏的男孩. 他的爸爸给了他一袋钉子，告诉他，每次发脾气或者跟人吵架的时候，就在院子的篱笆上钉一根。 第一天，男孩钉了37根钉子。后面的几天他学会了控制自己的脾气，每天钉的钉子也逐渐减少了。 他发现，控制自己的脾气，实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。 终于有一天，他一根钉子都没有钉，他高兴的把这件事告诉了爸爸。 爸爸说：'从今以后，如果你一天都没有发脾气，就可以在这天拔掉一根钉子.' 日子一天一天过去，最后，钉子全被拔光了。 爸爸带他来到篱笆边上，对他说：'儿子，你做得很好，可是看看篱笆上的钉子洞，这些洞永远也不可能恢复了。 就象你和一个人吵架，说了些难听的话，你就在他心里留下了一个伤口，像这个钉子洞一样。 '插一把刀子在一个人的身体里，再拔出来，伤口就难以愈合了。 无论你怎么道歉，伤口总是在那儿。要知道，身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。 你的朋友是你宝贵的财产，他们让你开怀，让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧伤。你需要他们的时候，他们会支持你，向你敞开心扉。 '告诉你的朋友你多么爱他们，告诉所有你认为是朋友的人，你的行动可以从邮寄这个小小的故事开始。有一天，当这封信回到你的信箱里时。你会发现你有一个很大的朋友圈'.
最后，我要说：'友谊的幸福之一，是知道了可以向谁倾吐秘密。
'当你说：'你是我的好朋友'时，请认真的说出来。当你道歉时请看着对方的眼睛。 永远不要嘲笑别人的梦想。不要随便给一个人定性。说话时要慢，思想时要快。 打电话的时候请你微笑，对方一定感觉得到。^^
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Sunday, March 30, 2008
一杯鲜奶
一个穷苦学生郝武德.凯礼，为了付学费，挨家挨户地推销货品。到了晚上，发现自己的肚子很饿，而口袋里只剩下一个小钱。 然而当一位年轻貌美的女孩子打开门时，他却失去了勇气。他没敢讨饭，却只要求一杯水喝。女孩看出来他饥饿的样子， 于是给他端出一大杯鲜奶来。他不慌不忙地将它喝下。而且问说，『应付多少钱？』而她的答复却是：「你不欠我一分钱。母亲告诉我们，不要为善事要求回报。」于是他说：「那么我只有由衷地谢谢了」当郝武德.凯礼离开时，不但觉得自己的身体强壮了不少，而且对天主与对人的信心也增强了起来。 他原来已经陷入绝境,准备放弃一切的。数年后，那个年轻女孩病情危急。当地医生都已束手无策。家人终于将她送进大都市，以便请专家来检查她罕见的病情。 他们请到了郝武德?凯礼医生来诊断。当他听说，病人是某某城的人时，他的眼中充满了奇特的光辉。他立刻穿上医生服装，走向医院大厅，进了她的病房。医生一眼就认出了她。他立刻回到诊断室，并且下定决心要尽最大的努力来挽救她的性命。 从那天起，他特别观察她的病情。经过一次漫长的奋斗之后，终于让她起死回生，战胜了病魔。 最后批价室将出院的帐单送到医生手中，请他签字。医生看了帐单一眼，然后在帐单边缘上写了几个字，就将帐单转送到她的病房里。 她不敢打开帐单，因为她确定，需要她一辈子才能还清这笔医药费。但最后她还是打开看了，而且帐单边缘上的一些东西，特别引起她的注目。她看到了这么一句话：「一杯鲜奶已足以付清全部的医药费！」签署人：郝武德.凯礼医生。眼中泛滥着泪水，她心中高兴地祈祷着：「天主啊！感谢您，感谢您的慈爱,藉由众人的心和手，不断地在传播着。」
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
你什么时候想家？
你什么时候最想回家探望父母？ 每次当爸爸妈妈打电话来问：“什么时候回来？”我会说：“下个星期天吧。”、“等工作没那么忙的时候吧！”、“迟些吧！”其实我最想说的是这一句： “遇到挫折的时候，我会回来。” 遇到挫折的时候，我们最想家。 春风得意，诸事顺利的时候，我们不会想家。即使不是跟朋友和情人一起，也宁愿一个人窝在自己家里看书、看影碟、玩电脑。个人空间比什么都重要。 然而，遇上挫折的时候、失意的时候、沮丧的时候，我们才会发现有一个老家可以回去，是多么幸福的事。 晚菹跟男朋友吵了一顿，半夜三更跑回老家，爸爸妈妈一定很担心。我们唯有等到第二天才回去。爸妈问：“为什么忽然跑回来？”我们微笑着说：“今天放假嘛！”其实，我们是遇到挫折了。 被朋友出卖，工作不如意，我们打一通电话回家问：“妈，我回来吃饭可以吗？”妈妈在电话那一头开心的说：“好呀，今天不用上班吗？”那一刻，好想坦白的说：“我厌倦了工作，好想回老家疗伤，可以吗？” 对不起，我们总是带着一颗挫败的心回家。
Monday, March 17, 2008
Winner's Calender
Day 1: Winner make thing happen; losers merely wait for it to happen.
Day 2: Winners are self-disciplined; losers self-indulgent.
Day 3: Winners are achievers; losers sustainers.
Day 4: Winners transcend environment; losers are being controlled by environment.
Day 5: Winners: "What can l do for them?"
Losers : "What can they do for me?"
Day 6: Winners think and acts; losers act and think.
Day 7 : Winners are self-confident and never jealous of other;
Losers have inferiority complex and are always jealous of others.
Day 8: Winners are never embarrasesed to seek other's help;
Losers have second thought seeking help.
Day 9: Winners : "l can "; Losers : " l can't "
Day10:Winners consider problems as a stepping stone, Losers as a stumbling block.
Day11: Winnerpersevere despite defeat; Losers entertain defeat
Day12: Winners are far-sighted; Losers short-sighted
Day13: Winnersare self-acceptant and never make any comparison with others;Losers always compare themselves with others..
Day14: Winners see problems as challenge, Losers as a burden.
Day15: Winners have high regard for themselves; Losers look down upon themselves.
Day16: Winners are positive; Losers negative .
Day17: Winners are creative; Losers non-creative.
Day18: Winners continue working while others have stopped; Losers stop working before others.
Day19: Winners have time to think; Losers are lazy to think.
Day20: Winners anticipate the unexpected; Losers can never tolerate the unexpected.
Day21: Winners work smartly hard; Losers work blindly hard.
Day22: Winners believe in themselves; Losers put their trust in fate.
Day23: Winners regard "man" as the highest and greastest value; Loser as tools to realose their goals.
Day24: Winners hardly complain; Losers always point their fingers at others for their failure.
Day25: Winners think " green"; Losers think "red".
Day26 : Winners live their own life; LOsers other's life.
Day27: Winners see light in darkness; Losers see only darkness.
Day28: Winners never quit; Losers quit too soon and too readily.
Day29: Winners are non-conformists; Losers conformists.
Day30: Winners solve problem; Losers are dissolved by problem.
Day31: Winners believe they can change, progress and improve; Losers think otherwise.
Day 2: Winners are self-disciplined; losers self-indulgent.
Day 3: Winners are achievers; losers sustainers.
Day 4: Winners transcend environment; losers are being controlled by environment.
Day 5: Winners: "What can l do for them?"
Losers : "What can they do for me?"
Day 6: Winners think and acts; losers act and think.
Day 7 : Winners are self-confident and never jealous of other;
Losers have inferiority complex and are always jealous of others.
Day 8: Winners are never embarrasesed to seek other's help;
Losers have second thought seeking help.
Day 9: Winners : "l can "; Losers : " l can't "
Day10:Winners consider problems as a stepping stone, Losers as a stumbling block.
Day11: Winnerpersevere despite defeat; Losers entertain defeat
Day12: Winners are far-sighted; Losers short-sighted
Day13: Winnersare self-acceptant and never make any comparison with others;Losers always compare themselves with others..
Day14: Winners see problems as challenge, Losers as a burden.
Day15: Winners have high regard for themselves; Losers look down upon themselves.
Day16: Winners are positive; Losers negative .
Day17: Winners are creative; Losers non-creative.
Day18: Winners continue working while others have stopped; Losers stop working before others.
Day19: Winners have time to think; Losers are lazy to think.
Day20: Winners anticipate the unexpected; Losers can never tolerate the unexpected.
Day21: Winners work smartly hard; Losers work blindly hard.
Day22: Winners believe in themselves; Losers put their trust in fate.
Day23: Winners regard "man" as the highest and greastest value; Loser as tools to realose their goals.
Day24: Winners hardly complain; Losers always point their fingers at others for their failure.
Day25: Winners think " green"; Losers think "red".
Day26 : Winners live their own life; LOsers other's life.
Day27: Winners see light in darkness; Losers see only darkness.
Day28: Winners never quit; Losers quit too soon and too readily.
Day29: Winners are non-conformists; Losers conformists.
Day30: Winners solve problem; Losers are dissolved by problem.
Day31: Winners believe they can change, progress and improve; Losers think otherwise.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
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